Tag: Q n A

  • Q n A : Supplication after reciting Quran


    Q
    Supplication after reciting Quran


    A

    Praise be to Allah.Firstly:
    It was narrated by an-Nasaa’i in as-Sunan al-Kubra (11067) and in ‘Amal al-Yawm wa’l-Laylah (308), and by at-Taaraani in ad-Du‘aa’ (1912) that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) never sat in any gathering, or recited Quran, or offered any prayer, but he concluded that with certain words. I said: O Messenger of Allah, I see that you never sit in a gathering, or recite Quran, or offer any prayer, but you conclude it with these words. He said: “Yes. Whoever spoke good words, that will be like a seal on what he did of good and whoever spoke ill, it will be an expiation for him: “Subhaanaka Allahumma wa bi hamdika, laa ilaaha illa anta, astaghfiruka wa atoobu ilayk (Glory and praise be to you, O Allah, there is no god worthy of worship except You, I seek Your forgiveness and I repent to You).”
    Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in as-Saheehah (3164).
    In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained that the dhikr of expiation for a gathering should be said at the end of any gathering in which a man sits, whether it was a gathering of dhikr or a gathering in which there was some ill or idle talk, for if it was a gathering of dhikr, it will be a seal on it for him.
    As-Sindi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
    What is meant is that it will be an affirmation of what he did of good, and will raise his deed to such a level that Allah will accept it, and it will like a guarantee that it will not be rejected, and if it was otherwise, then it will be an expiation for him. See: Mir‘aat al-Mafaateeh (8/204).
    Based on that, it is mustahabb for the Muslim to end any gathering with these words, no matter what kind of gathering it was. If it was a gathering to read Quran or to offer a prayer, or he sat with his friends, or with his family members, or to reconcile between people, or any other gathering, then he wants to leave, he should recite this dhikr just before he gets up to leave, then he should get up.
    Secondly:
    There is no proven supplication specifically for completing the Quran, neither this supplication nor any other. From what has been explained above, it is clear that this dhikr and du‘aa’ is not specifically for completing the Quran or anything else; rather it is general and may be recited in any gathering.
    However, the scholars have stated that it is mustahabb to attend gatherings in which the Quran is completed. An-Nawawi said: It is strongly encouraged (mustahabb)  to attend gatherings in which the Quran is completed. At-Tibyaan fi Aadaab Hamlat al-Quran (159).
    Ibn Qudaamah said in al-Mughni (2/126): It is mustahabb to gather one’s family and others when completing the Quran to listen to the supplication.
    Ahmad said: When Anas completed the Quran, he would gather his family and his children.
    That was narrated from Ibn Mas‘ood and others.
    For more information, please see the answers to questions no. 65581 and 37683 .
    And Allah knows best.

  • Q n A : How can we reconcile between the idea of competing in doing good and loving good for others?


    Q
    How can we reconcile between the idea of competing in doing good and loving good for others?


    A

    Praise be to Allah.Firstly:
    Part of the practice of the Muslim that Allah, may He be exalted, and His Messenger taught him is the importance of brotherhood among the believers, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “The believers are but brothers” [al-Hujuraat 49:10].
    There is no contradiction between the verse (interpretation of the meaning) “So for this let the competitors compete” [al-Mutaffifeen 83:26] and what is proven from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), that he said: “No one of you truly believes until he loves for his brother – or for his neighbour – what he loves for himself.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (13) and Muslim (45).
    The scholars have several views with regard to dispelling this apparent contradiction:
    1- That the hadith has to do with matters of this world and the verse has to do with matters of the hereafter. See: Saheeh Muslim bi Sharh al-Abi wa’s-Sanoosi (1/244).
    2- It was said that what is meant by that is loving good in general terms, but not in a specific or detailed way such as a person may seek for himself. Ibn al-Jawzi (may Allah be pleased with him) said: If it is said: How can this be imagined when everyone wants to be ahead of others with regard to what he chooses for himself, and he loves to surpass others in virtues, and ‘Umar competed with Abu Bakr? The answer is: that what is meant is to wish for good for them in general terms and wish that evil be warded off from them in general terms. The individual should love that for his brother as he loves it for himself. As for excelling in some specific virtue and attaining a high level of some specific characteristic, there is nothing wrong with the individual wanting to surpass others in that regard.
    End quote from Kashf al-Mushkil min Hadith as-Saheehayn (3/222). See also: al-Qabas Sharh al-Muwatta’ by Ibn al-‘Arabi (929) and al-Masaalik Sharh al-Muwatta’ (6/406-417).
    3- This is a command to compete in doing more acts of worship, which will prompt others to join him and compete in doing good and righteous deeds. However, the hadith is general in meaning and includes matters of both this world and the hereafter. Hence the believer does not dislike others to join him in that; rather he loves for all people to join him in that competition and urges them to do so. This is a sign that he is very sincere towards people of faith.
    Ibn Rajab said in Jaami‘ al-‘Uloom wa’l-Hikam (1/327-335):
    The point is that this is one of the characteristics of faith that one is obliged to have: the individual should love for his believing brother what he loves for himself, and hate for him what he hates for himself. If he fails to attain that, then his faith is undermined.
    All of this can only be achieved if one’s heart is sound and free of rancour, insincerity and envy, for envy makes the envier hate to see anyone excel him in any good characteristic, or even equal him in it, because he wants to stand out among the people in his virtues, and be distinct from them. But faith requires the opposite of that, which is that all believers should share in what Allah has granted him of good, without that detracting from what he has.
    In general, the believer should love for the believers what he loves for himself, and hate for them what he hates for himself. If he sees any shortcoming in his brother in terms of religious commitment, he should strive to advise him.
    Nevertheless, the believer should feel sad if he misses out on any religious virtue. Therefore he is instructed, with regard to issues of religious commitment, to look at those who are above him and to strive to compete in increasing in that as much as he can, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):  “So for this let the competitors compete” [al-Mutaffifeen 83:26]. He should not resent it if anyone shares his virtues with him; rather he should like all people to compete in that, and should urge them to do so. This is a sign that he has attained perfect sincerity towards his brothers.
    Al-Fudayl said: If you love for people to be like you, then you are not being sincere towards your brother. So how about if you want them to be inferior to you in that regard?
    This indicates that being sincere towards all believers means that you like them to be better than you. This is a high level and lofty degree of sincerity, but that is not obligatory. Rather what is enjoined in Islamic teachings is that you should love for them to be like you, yet if someone surpasses you in some religious virtue, you should strive to catch up with him and feel sad for falling short or falling behind those who have surpassed you – not out of envy for what Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, has given them by His grace , but because you are competing with them, and because you wish to attain what they have attained, without any ill-feeling towards them, and because you feel sad because of your falling behind and failing to attain the same level as those who have surpassed you.
    The believer should always think of himself as falling short and not attaining high ranks. He will benefit from that in two important ways: striving to attain those virtues and increase in that, and regarding himself with dissatisfaction. That will result in him loving for the believers to be better than him, because he does not want them to be just like him. He will also be discontent with himself as he is, and will strive to better himself. Muhammad ibn Waasi‘ said to his son: As for your father, may Allah not increase his ilk among the Muslims.
    If someone is not content with himself as he is, how can he wish for the Muslims to be like him, if he is sincere towards them? Rather he should love for the Muslims to be better than him, and he should love for himself to be better than he is.
    End quote. See also: Fath al-Baari by Ibn Rajab (1/45).
    See also the answer to question no. 305135 .
    And Allah knows best.

  • Q n A : How can he make seeking Allah’s pleasure – and not seeking people’s pleasure – his main concern?


    Q
    How can he make seeking Allah’s pleasure – and not seeking people’s pleasure – his main concern?


    A

    Praise be to Allah.The greatest goal a believer can pursue is seeking the pleasure of the Lord of the Worlds.
    Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Allah has promised the believing men and believing women gardens beneath which rivers flow, wherein they abide eternally, and pleasant dwellings in gardens of perpetual residence; but approval from Allah is greater. It is that which is the great attainment” [at-Tawbah 9:72].
    It was narrated by al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh (6549) and by Muslim in his Saheeh (2829) that Abu Sa‘eed al-Khudri said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah, may He be blessed and exalted, will say to the people of Paradise: ‘O people of Paradise!’ They will say: ‘Here we are at Your service, our Lord.’ He will say: ‘Are you pleased?’ They will say: ‘How could we not be pleased, O Lord, when You have given us that which You have not given to anyone else among Your creation?’ He will say: ‘Shall I not give you something even better than that?’ They will say: ‘O Lord, what can be better than that?’ He will say: ‘I bestow My pleasure upon you and I will never be angry with you after that.’”
    The main goal of the believer’s life is that he seeks the pleasure of Allah alone, with no partner or associate, even if that displeases people. The sign of the hypocrites is that they are keen to please people, even if that angers the Lord of the Worlds.
    Allah says regarding the hypocrites (interpretation of the meaning): “They swear by Allah to you [Muslims] to satisfy you. But Allah and His Messenger are more worthy for them to satisfy, if they should be believers” [at-Tawbah 9:62].
    Things that will help a person to seek the pleasure of Allah alone include the following:
    Firstly: Learning about his Lord, so that he will be certain that all things are in His hand, and He alone is the One Who controls all things; He alone is the One Who brings low and raises high; He alone is the One Who grants honour and humiliates; no one can withhold what He gives and no one can give what He withholds; all people have no power to benefit or harm him or themselves, or to cause death, give life or anything else.
    Once a person believes in that with certainty, his heart will be attached to his Lord, because he believes that people cannot benefit him except by his Lord’s leave, and they cannot harm him except by his Lord’s leave alone.
    The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: Know that if the nation were to come together to benefit you with something, they would not benefit you except with something that Allah has already decreed for you, and if they were to come together to harm you with something, they would not harm you except with something that Allah has already decreed for you.”
    Narrated by at-Tirmidhi in his Sunan (2516); classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in as-Silsilah as-Saheehah (5/497).
    Secondly: being certain that people’s loving him and being pleased with him only happens with the permission of his Lord, so if he pleases his Lord, He will instill love for him in the hearts of His believing slaves.
    At-Tirmidhi narrated in his Sunan (3267) that al-Bara’ ibn ‘Aazib (may Allah be pleased with him) said: A man stood up and said: O Messenger of Allah, if I praise someone then he is praiseworthy, and if I criticize someone then he is blameworthy. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “That is only for Allah, may He be glorified and exalted.”
    This hadith was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh at-Tirmidhi (2605).
    Allah alone is the One Who, if He praises someone, then he is praiseworthy, and if He is angry with someone and criticizes him, then he is blameworthy. As for people, they have no power in that regard except by Allah’s leave.
    In the hadith it says that it is Allah Who instills love or hate of someone in people’s hearts.
    It was narrated by al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh (3209) and by Muslim in his Saheeh (2637) that Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When Allah loves a person, He calls Jibreel and says: ‘I love So and so, so love him.’ So Jibreel loves him, then he calls out to the people of heaven, ‘Allah loves So and so, so love him.’ So the people of heaven love him and he finds acceptance on earth. If Allah hates  someone, He calls Jibreel and says: ‘I hate So and so, so hate him.’ So Jibreel hates him, then he calls out to the people of heaven: ‘Allah hates So and so, so hate him.’ So they hate him and he is hated on earth.”
    Thirdly: being certain that focusing on pleasing people and not the Lord of the Worlds is a sign of failure, and the one who does that will end up blameworthy, with no one to praise him; Allah will abandon him and he will have no one to support him. But if he seeks to please Allah alone, Allah will suffice him and he will have no need of people.
    Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Do not make [as equal] with Allah another deity and [thereby] become censured and forsaken” [al-Isra’ 17:22].
    Ibn Hibbaan narrated in his Saheeh (277) from ‘Aa’ishah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever pleases Allah by angering the people, Allah will suffice him, but whoever angers Allah by pleasing the people, Allah will leave him to the people.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in as-Silsilah as-Saheehah (2311).
    Look at Ka‘b ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) and how his focus was on speaking the truth and pleasing Allah alone, because he believed that Allah would suffice him if he spoke the truth, and that if his main concern was to avoid angering the people by telling lies, then Allah would soon cause people to be angry with him.
    Ka‘b (may Allah be pleased with him) said, in the story of his repentance, that he said to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): Indeed, by Allah, if I sat before anyone in this world other than you, I would have saved myself from his anger with an excuse, for I have been given the ability to argue persuasively, but by Allah, I know that if I were to tell you a lie today that you accepted, soon Allah would make you angry with me, but if I tell you the truth today that may make you upset with me, then I hope that Allah will pardon me. No, by Allah, I had no excuse. By Allah, I was never stronger or more well off than when I stayed behind and did not accompany you [on the campaign to Tabook]. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “As for this one, he has spoken the truth. Get up and leave until Allah decides concerning you.”
    Narrated by al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh (4418) and by Muslim in his Saheeh (2769).
    Fourthly: knowing that there is no way to please people, for man is basically unfair and ignorant, and pleasing people is a target that cannot be achieved, for people are not even pleased with their Lord, so how can you think that they will be pleased with you?!
    Al-Bayhaqi narrated in az-Zuhd al-Kabeer (180) with a saheeh isnaad from al-Hasan al-Basri that it was said to him: People come to your gathering to pick on any error you may make, so that they can make it a reason to gossip about you. He said: Do not worry about it, for I thought of the pleasure of being close to Allah and I hope for that; I thought of Paradise and I hope for that; I thought of al-hoor al-‘een and I hope for that; I thought of being safe from people, and I found no way to achieve that. When I saw that people are not pleased with their Creator, I realized that they will never be pleased with a created being like themselves.
    Ash-Shaafi‘i (may Allah have mercy on him) said to Yoonus ibn ‘Abd al-A‘la: O Abu Moosa, if you were to strive your utmost to please all the people, there is no way to do that. As that is the case, then make your deeds and your intention sincerely for Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) alone.
    Narrated by al-Bayhaqi in Shu‘ab al-Eemaan (6518).
    So let each person’s main concern be to seek the pleasure of his Lord alone, for if He is pleased, that is sufficient for you.
    Let your slogan in life and your main concern before the Lord of the worlds be as the poet said:
    I hope that my relationship with You is sweeter and life is bitter; I hope that You are pleased and that people are angry.
    I hope that what is between You and me is in order, and that what is between me and people is in ruins.
    If You love me then everything else is insignificant, and everyone on earth is as dust.
    With regard to books, we do not know of any book that has been written specifically about this topic, but we advise the questioner and all Muslims to learn more about Allah, for the more a person comes to know about his Lord, the more his concern will be on seeking the pleasure of his Lord alone, and he will not worry about the displeasure of people.
    One excellent book on this topic is an-Nahj al-Asma fi Sharh Asma’ Allah al-Husna, by Dr. Muhammad al-Humood an-Najdi.
    We also advise you to read widely in the books of Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali and Ibn al-Qayyim, for their words on this topic are among the most beneficial.
    And Allah knows best.

  • Q n A : Why will we be brought to account for things that are already written for us?


    Q
    Why will we be brought to account for things that are already written for us?


    A

    Praise be to Allah.Allaah
    has decreed what He has decreed. One of the pillars of faith is to believe
    in al-qadaa’ wa’l-qadar
    (the Divine will and decree). Allaah has created people and He knows
    what they are going to do, because of His vast knowledge. He has given
    His slaves freedom of will, and has shown us the right path, so whoever
    does good, it is for his own benefit, and whoever does evil, it will
    count against him. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning);
    “So
    whoever does good equal to the weight of an atom (or a small ant), shall
    see it.
    And
    whoever does evil equal to the weight of an atom (or a small ant), shall
    see it.”
    [al-Zalzalah
    99:7-8]
    And
    Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
    “By
    Nafs (Adam or a person or a soul), and Him Who perfected him in proportion;

    Then
    He showed him what is wrong for him and what is right for him.
    Indeed
    he succeeds who purifies his ownself (i.e. obeys and performs all that
    Allâh ordered…).
    And
    indeed he fails who corrupts his ownself (i.e. disobeys what Allâh has
    ordered …).”
    [al-Shams
    91:7-10]
    So
    it is not permissible for him to harm anyone unjustly, whether by killing
    or in any other way. Whoever does that deserves punishment in this world,
    and torment in the Hereafter, for going against the laws decreed by
    Allaah.

  • Q n A : Cursing Life


    Q
    Cursing Life


    A

    Praise be to Allah.It is not permissible for a man to curse life if he feels fed up, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, in a hadeeth qudsi (holy narration) that Allah says, “The son of Adam offends Me by inveighing against [the vicissitudes of] time, and I am Time. In My Hand is the alternation of night and day.” It was also narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Do not inveigh against time, for Allah is Time”, i.e., He is the One Who is controlling time. So when man is afflicted with calamity, he must be patient and seek reward, for Allah has enjoined patience.
     And Allah said to His Prophet ` (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) (interpretation of the meaning):
    “This is of the news of the Unseen which We reveal unto you (O Muhammad); neither you nor your people knew it before this. So be patient. Surely, the (good) end is for the Muttaqoon (the pious).” [11:49]
    Let man know that no matter what happens there is something worse than it  somewhere else in the world. If he understands this, then his problems will become easier to bear.
     And Allah knows best.

  • Q n A : What Are the Merits of Islam?


    Q
    What Are the Merits of Islam?


    A

    Praise be to Allah.Why Islam is the true religion
    This is a reasonable enough question for one who has not entered Islam , but one who believes in and practices this religion already knows the blessings which are his because of this religion. There are many reasons for this, which include the following:

    The Muslim worships One God, Who has no partner, and Who has the most beautiful names and the highest attributes. 

    Thus the Muslim’s focus and aim is concentrated, focused on His Lord and Creator; he puts his trust in Him and asks Him for help, patience and support; he believes that Allah is able to do all things, and has no need of a wife or son. 
    Allah created the heavens and earth; He is the One Who gives life and death; He is the Creator and Sustainer from Whom the slave seeks provision. He is the All-Hearing Who responds to the supplication of His slave, and from Whom the slave hopes for a response. He is the All-Merciful and All-Forgiving, to Whom the slave turns in repentance when he has committed a sin or fallen short in his worship of Allah. He is the Omniscient and All-Seeing, Who knows all intentions and what is hidden in people’s hearts.
    The slave feels ashamed to commit a sin by doing wrong to himself or to others, because his Lord is watching over him and sees all that he does. He knows that Allah is All-Wise, the Seer of the Unseen, so he trusts that what Allah decrees for him is good; he knows that Allah will never be unjust to him, and that everything that Allah decrees for him is good, even if he does not understand the wisdom behind it.

    The effects of Islamic worship on the soul of the Muslim include the following:

    Prayer keeps the slave in contact with his Lord; if he enters it in a spirit of humility and concentration, he will feel tranquil and secure, because he is seeking a “powerful support,” which is Allah, may He be glorified and exalted. For this reason, the Prophet of Islam, Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to say: “Let us find relaxation and joy in prayer.” If something distressed him, he would hasten to pray. Everyone who finds himself faced with disaster and tries prayer finds strength, patience and consolation, because he is reciting the words of his Lord, which cannot be compared to the effect of the words of a created being. If the words of some psychologists can offer a little comfort, what do you think of the words of the One Who created the psychologist?

    Now let us look at Zakah (the poor due), which is one of the pillars of Islam . Zakah purifies the soul from stinginess and miserliness, and accustoms people to being generous and helping the poor and needy. It will bring a great reward on the Day of Resurrection, just like other forms of worship. It is not burdensome, like man-made taxes; it is only 25 in every thousand, which the sincere Muslim pays willingly and does not try to evade or wait until someone chases him for it.

    Fasting involves refraining from food and sex for an appointed time. It is a form of worship, and a way in which one can feel the hunger of those who are deprived. It is also a reminder of the blessings of the Creator, and it brings rewards beyond measure.

    Hajj is the Pilgrimage to the sacred House of Allah, which was built by Ibrahim (Abraham, upon whom be peace). By performing Hajj one is obeying the command of Allah and the call to come and meet Muslims from all over the world.

    Islam commands all kinds of good and forbids all kinds of evil . It encourages good manners and proper treatment of others. 

    What are the good characteristics in Islam?
    Islam enjoins good characteristics such as truthfulness, patience, deliberation, kindness, humility, modesty, keeping promises, dignity, mercy, justice, courage, patience, friendliness, contentment, chastity, good treatment, tolerance, trustworthiness, gratitude for favours, and self-control in times of anger. Islam commands the Muslim to fulfil his duty towards his parents and to uphold family ties, to help the needy, to treat neighbours well, to protect and safeguard the wealth of the orphan, to be gentle with the young and show respect to the old, to be kind to servants and animals, to remove harmful things from the road, to speak kind words, to forgive at the time when one has the opportunity to take revenge, to be sincere towards one’s fellow-Muslims, to meet the needs of the Muslims, to give the debtor time to repay his debt, to prefer others over oneself, to console others, to greet people with a smiling face, to visit the sick, to support the one who is oppressed, to give gifts to friends, to honour his guest, to treat his wife kindly and spend on her and her children, to spread the greeting of peace (salam) and to seek permission before entering another person’s house, lest one see something private that the other person does not want one to see.
    Some non-Muslims may do these things out of politeness or good manners, but they are not seeking reward from Allah or salvation of the Day of Judgement.
    What is forbidden in Islam?
    If we look at what Islam has prohibited, we will find that it is in the interests of both the individual and society as a whole. All these prohibitions serve to safeguard the relationship between the slave and his Lord, and the relationship of the individual with himself and with his fellow-man. 
    The following examples demonstrate this:

    Islam forbids the association of anything in worship with Allah and the worship of anything other than Allah, because this spells doom and misery.

    Islam also forbids visiting or believing soothsayers and fortune-tellers; magic or witchcraft that may cause a rift between two people or bring them together; belief in the influence of the stars on events and people’s lives; cursing time, because Allah is directing its affairs; and superstition, because this is pessimism.

    Islam forbids cancelling out good deeds by showing off , boasting or reminding others of one’s favours; bowing or prostrating to anything other than Allah; sitting with hypocrites or immoral people for the purposes of enjoying their company or keeping them company; and invoking the curse or wrath of Allah on one another or damning one another to Hell.

    Islam forbids urinating into stagnant water; defecating on the side of the road or in places where people seek shade or where they draw water; from facing the qiblah (direction of prayer) or turning one’s back towards it when passing water or stool giving the greeting of salam (peace) to one who is answering the call of nature; and putting one’s hand into any vessel before washing it, when one has just woken up.

    Islam forbids the offering of any nafl (supererogatory) prayers when the sun is rising, when it is at its zenith, and when it is setting, because it rises and sets between the horns of Shaytan (Satan); praying when there is food prepared that a person desires; praying when one urgently needs to pass water, stool or wind, because that will distract a person from concentrating properly on his prayer.

    Islam forbids the Muslim to raise his voice in prayer, lest it disturb other believers; to continue offering supererogatory prayers at night when one feels drowsy – such a person should sleep then get up; to stay up all night in prayer, especially one night after another; and to stop praying when there is doubt as to the validity of one’s wudu – unless one hears a sound or smells an odour.

    Islam forbids buying, selling and making “lost and found” announcements in the mosque – because it is the place of worship and remembrance of Allah, where worldly affairs have no place.

    Islam forbids haste in walking when the iqamah (call immediately preceding congregational prayer) is given, and prescribes walking in a calm and dignified manner. 

    It is also forbidden to boast about the cost of building a mosque; to decorate a mosque with red or yellow paint or adornments which will distract the worshippers; to fast day after day without a break.

    Islam forbids building over graves, making them high, sitting on them, walking between them wearing shoes, putting lights over them or writing on them.

    It is forbidden to disinter the dead or to take graves as places of worship. 

    Islam forbids wailing, tearing one’s clothes or leaving one’s hair unkempt when a person dies. 

    Eulogizing the dead in the manner of the times of Ignorance (Jahiliyyah) is also forbidden, although there is nothing wrong with informing others that a person has died.

    Islam forbids the consumption of riba (interest); all kinds of selling which involve ignorance (of the product), misleading and cheating; selling blood, wine, pork, idols and everything that Allah has forbidden – their price, whether bought or sold – is haram (unlawful); najash, which is offering a price for something one has no intention of buying, as happens in many auctions; concealing a product’s faults at the time of selling; selling something which one does not own or before it comes into one’s possession; undercutting, outbidding or out bargaining another; selling produce before it is clear that it is in good condition and free of blemish; cheating in weights and measures; and hoarding. 

    A partner who has shares in a plot of land or a date palm tree is forbidden to sell his share without consulting his partners. 

    It is forbidden to consume the wealth of orphans unjustly; to bet or gamble; to take anything by force; to accept or offer bribes; to steal people’s wealth or to consume it unjustly; to take something for the purpose of destroying it; to undermine the value of people’s possessions; to keep lost property which one has found, or to keep quiet about it and not announce it, for it belongs to the one who recognizes it; to cheat in any way; to ask for a loan with no intention of repaying it; to take anything of the wealth of a fellow-Muslim, unless it is given freely, because what is taken because of another person’s shyness is haram (impermissible); and to accept a gift because of intercession.

    Celibacy and castration are forbidden, as is marrying two sisters, or a woman and her aunt (paternal or maternal), whether he marries the aunt after marrying her niece or vice versa, for fear of breaking the ties of kinship. 

    It is forbidden to make deals in marriage, such as saying “Let me marry your daughter and I will give you my daughter or sister in marriage.” Such reciprocal deals are a form of oppression and injustice, and haram. 

    Islam forbids mut`ah (temporary marriage) , which is a marriage contract for a period of time agreed by the two parties, at the end of which the marriage expires.

    Islam forbids intercourse with a menstruating woman, until she has purified herself (by taking a bath after her period ends), and also forbids anal intercourse. 

    A man is forbidden to propose marriage to a woman when another man has already proposed to her, unless the other man withdraws his proposal or gives him permission. 

    It is forbidden to marry a previously-married woman without consulting her, or a virgin without seeking her permission.

    It is forbidden to wish (a newly married couple) “Bi’l-rafa wa’l-banهn (a joyful life and many sons),” because this is the greeting of the people of Jahiliyyah (ignorance), who hated daughters. 

    The divorced woman is forbidden to conceal what Allah has created in her womb (if she is pregnant). 

    A husband and wife are forbidden to speak (to others) about the intimacies of married life. 

    It is forbidden to turn a woman against her husband or to take divorce lightly.

    It is forbidden for a woman to ask for another’s divorce, such as asking a man to divorce a woman so that she can marry him. 

    A wife is forbidden to spend her husband’s money without his permission, or to keep away from his bed without good reason, because the angels will curse her if she does that.

    A man is forbidden to marry his father’s wife, or to have intercourse with a woman who is pregnant by another man. 

    It is forbidden for a man to practice ‘azl (coitus interruptus) with his free wife without her permission. 

    It is forbidden for a man to return home from a journey late at night and startle his family, unless he has previously notified them when he will arrive home.

    A man is forbidden to take anything of his wife’s mahr (dowry) without her consent, or to keep annoying his wife so that she will give up her wealth.

    Islam forbids women to make a wanton display of themselves (tabarruj). 

    It also forbids extreme forms of female circumcision. 

    Women are forbidden to admit anyone into their husband’s home without his permission; his general permission is acceptable so long as they stay within the limits of shari’ah (Islamic law). 

    It is forbidden to separate a mother and child (in case of divorce); to let one’s womenfolk behave foolishly (in an immoral fashion) and not say anything; to let one’s gaze wander everywhere; and to follow an accidental glance with an intentional glance.

    Islam forbids the eating of dead meat, regardless of whether it died by drowning, strangulation, shock or falling from a high place; eating blood, pork and anything slaughtered in a name other than that of Allah or for idols; eating the flesh or drinking the milk of beasts that feed on filth and waste matter; eating the flesh of every carnivorous beast that has fangs and every bird that has talons; eating the meat of domesticated donkeys; killing animals by keeping them and throwing stones at them until they die, or detaining them without food until they die; slaughtering with teeth or nails; slaughtering one animal (for food) in front of another; or sharpening the knife in front of the animal to be slaughtered.

    In the area of clothing and adornment, men are forbidden the extravagance of wearing gold. 

    Muslim men are forbidden to be naked or to expose their thighs; to leave their clothes long (below the ankles) and trail them on the ground for the purpose of showing off; and to wear clothes that will attract attention.

    It is forbidden to bear false witness; to make false accusations against a chaste believing woman; to accuse someone who is innocent; to utter lies; to slander and backbite; to call people by offensive nicknames; to spread gossip and malicious slander; to make fun of the Muslims; to boast about one’s status; to shed doubts on a person’s lineage; to utter slander, insults and obscenities; to speak in an indecent or rude manner; or to utter evil in public, except by one who has been wronged.

    Islam forbids telling lies; one of the worst kinds of lies is to lie about dreams, like fabricating dreams and visions in order to prove one’s virtue, or make some material gains, or to frighten an enemy.

    Muslims are forbidden to praise themselves, or to talk in a secret way: two may not converse secretly to the exclusion of a third, because this is offensive.

    It is forbidden to curse a believer or someone who does not deserve to be cursed.

    Islam forbids speaking ill of the dead; praying for death; wishing for death because of some suffering that one is passing through; praying against one’s self, one’s children, one’s servants or one’s wealth.

    Muslims are told not to eat the food that is directly in front of others or to eat from the centre of the dish or platter; rather they should eat from what is directly in front of them or thereabouts, because the barakah (blessing) comes in the middle of the food.

    It is forbidden to drink from a broken edge of a vessel, because this could cause harm; or to drink from the mouth of a vessel; or to breathe into it. 

    It is forbidden to eat while lying on one’s stomach; to sit at a table where wine is being drunk; to leave a fire burning in one’s house when one sleeps; to sleep with Ghamr in one’s hand, like an offensive smell or the remainder of food (grease); to sleep on one’s stomach; or to talk about or try to interpret bad dreams, because these are tricks of the Shaytan.

    It is forbidden to kill another person except in cases where it is right to do so; to kill one’s children for fear of poverty; to commit suicide; to commit fornication, adultery or sodomy (homosexuality); to drink wine, or even to prepare it, carry it from one place to another, or sell it. 

    Muslims are forbidden to please people by angering Allah; to offend their parents or even to say “Uff” (the slightest word of contempt) to them; to claim that a child belongs to anyone but his real father; to torture by means of fire; to burn anyone, alive or dead, with fire; to mutilate the bodies of the slain; to help anyone commit falsehood; or to cooperate in wrongdoing and sin.

    It is forbidden to obey any person by disobeying Allah; to swear falsely; to swear a disastrous oath; to eavesdrop on people without their permission; to invade people’s privacy or look at their private parts; to claim something that does not belong to one or that one did not do, for the purpose of showing off; to look into someone’s else’s house without permission; to be extravagant; to swear an oath to do something wrong; to spy on others or be suspicious about righteous men and women; to envy, hate or shun one another; to persist in falsehood; to be arrogant or feel superior; to be filled with self-admiration; to be pleased with one’s arrogance. 

    Islam forbids taking back one’s charity, even if one pays to get it back; employing someone to do a job without paying him his wages; being unfair in giving gifts to one’s children; bequeathing everything in one’s will and leaving one’s heirs poor – in such a case the will should not be executed; writing a will that concerns more than one third of one’s legacy; being a bad neighbour; or changing a will to the detriment of one or some of one’s heirs. 

    A Muslim is forbidden to forsake or shun his brother for more than three days, except for a reason sanctioned by shari’ah; to hold small stones between two fingers and throw them because this could cause injury to eyes or teeth; to include his heirs in a will, because Allah has already given heirs their rights of inheritance; to disturb his neighbour; to point a weapon at his Muslim brother; to hand someone an unsheathed sword, lest it harm him; to come (walk) between two people except with their permission; to return a gift, unless there is some shar’i objection to it; to be extravagant; to give money to foolish people; to wish to be like someone to whom Allah has given more of something; to cancel out his charity by giving offensive reminders of his giving; to wilfully conceal testimony; or to oppress orphans or scold one who asks for help or money.

    It is forbidden to treat with evil medicines, because Allah would not create a cure for this ummah which includes something that He has forbidden. 

    It is forbidden to kill women and children in warfare; to boast to one another; or to break promises.

    Islam forbids betraying a trust; asking for charity that one does not need; alarming a Muslim brother or taking away his possessions, whether jokingly or seriously; changing one’s mind after giving a gift, except in the case of a gift from a father to his child; practising medicine without experience; or killing ants, bees and hoopoe birds.

    A man is forbidden to look at the ‘awrah (private parts) of another man, and a woman is forbidden to look at the ‘awrah of another woman.

    It is forbidden to sit between two people without their permission; or to greet only those whom one knows, because the greeting is to be given to those whom you know and those whom you do not know. 

    A Muslim is forbidden to let an oath come between him and good deeds; he should do what is good and make expiation for the oath. 

    It is forbidden to judge between two disputing parties when one is angry, or to judge in favour of one party without hearing what the other has to say. 

    It is forbidden for a man to walk through the market-place carrying something – like a sharp weapon – that could harm the Muslims, unless it is properly covered.

    A Muslim is forbidden to make another person get up, so that he can take his place.

    There are more commands and prohibitions which came for the benefit and happiness of individuals and mankind as a whole. Have you ever seen any other religion that can compare to this religion?
    Read this response again, then ask yourself: is it not a great pity that I am not one of them? Allah says in the Quran (interpretation of the meaning): “And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers.” [Al ‘Imran 3:85]
    Finally, I hope that everyone who reads this will be guided to the correct way and to follow the truth. May Allah protect you and us from all evil.
    And Allah knows best.

  • Q n A : Saying that specific people are going to Paradise or Hell


    Q
    Saying that
    specific people are going to Paradise or Hell


    A

    Praise be to Allah.According to Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jamaa’ah, the
    basic principle is that the issue of who will go to Paradise and who will go to Hell is
    the matter of ‘aqeedah based on what is said in the Qur’aan and Sunnah, and
    there is no room for reasoning or ijtihaad in this matter.
    If the Qur’aan or Sunnah says that a specific person will be in
    Paradise or Hell, we bear witness to that. At the same time we hope that those who do good
    will go to Paradise and fear that those who do bad will go to Hell, but Allaah knows best
    how people will end up.
    The issue of saying who will go to Paradise or Hell may be divided into
    two categories:
    General statements, which have to do with people’s qualities, such
    as saying, “Whoever associates anything with Allaah in an act of major shirk is a
    kaafir who is beyond the pale of Islam, and will be in Hell.”

    Similarly we say that whoever fasts Ramadaan out of faith and in the
    hope of receiving reward will be forgiven his previous and future sins, and that an
    acceptable Hajj has no other reward but Paradise. There are many such statements in the
    Qur’aan and saheeh Sunnah.
    If a person asks, “Will the one who calls on anything other than
    Allaah and seeks the help of anyone but Allaah be in Paradise or Hell?” we would say
    that he is a kaafir who will be in Hell, if he is shown clear evidence that he is wrong
    but he stills persists and dies believing that.
    If it were said, Whoever does Hajj then does not commit any obscene or
    immoral act, and dies after his Hajj, for example, what will his fate be? We would say
    that he is in Paradise. Or the person whose last words in this life are Laa ilaaha
    ill-Allaah will be in Paradise, and so on.
    All of this has to do with people’s qualities and does not apply
    to any specific, named person.
    Specific statements referring to people by name, stating that a
    particular person will be in Paradise or in Hell. This is not permissible except in cases
    where Allaah or His Messenger
    (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) have informed
    us of it.
    Whoever Allaah or His Messenger have mentioned by name and stated that
    they will be in Paradise are definitely among the people of Paradise, such as the ten who
    were given the good news of Paradise (al-‘asharah al-mubashsharah), foremost among
    whom are the four Khulafa’, Abu Bakr al-Siddeeq, ‘Umar, ‘Uthmaan and
    ‘Ali, may Allaah be pleased with them.
    Those who the Qur’aan and Sunnah mention by name and state that
    they will be in Hell are definitely among the people of Hell, such as Abu Lahab and his
    wife, Abu Taalib, ‘Amr ibn Lahiy, and others.
    We ask Allaah to make us among the people of Paradise by His Grace and
    Mercy. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.

  • Q n A : Muslim holidays & symbol


    Q
    Muslim holidays & symbol


    A

    Praise be to Allah.Muslims have only two Holy days to celebrate. The two
    Holy days are Eid Alfitir, which follows the holy month of Ramadan, and Eid Aladha, which
    is in the Hajj (holy pilgrimage) season. Muslims celebrate Eid Aladha by slaughtering a
    sheep. The slaughtering of sheep is done in following the footsteps of Prophet Abraham
    when he was ordered by Allah (God) to slaughter his first child, Ishmael. When he told his
    son about it, his son told him to carry on with the order of Allah, and that he will be
    obedient and patient. As Abraham was tempting to slaughter Ishmael, Allah gave them a big
    and fat sheep to slaughter instead. The sacrificing of a sheep has become a ritual for
    Muslims every year in remembrance of the obedience of Abraham and Ishmael, peace be upon
    them. Our celebration of this day and the slaughtering of the sheep are in compliance with
    the teachings of our Prophet Mohammad, praising and peace of Allah be upon him. Only
    Muslims celebrate these two days, while at the same time, Muslims do not celebrate the
    Christian holidays.
    As for the symbol, Muslims worship Allah (God), therefor they reject
    any kind of idol worshipping. We believe that Christians believe in the cross to be a
    symbol of their God, or the so claimed Son of God. They seek blessing and protection from
    this cross. Muslims seek protection and blessing only from Allah, that is why we do not
    have an Islamic symbol as the Christians cross. Some Muslims have invented the
    symbol of a crescent to counter the cross, but this is not authentic and it is considered
    as an innovation in Islam.

  • Q n A : Conditions of righteous deeds


    Q
    Conditions of righteous deeds


    A

    Praise be to Allah.An action cannot be an act of worship unless it includes two things: complete love and complete humility. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
    “But those who believe, love Allah more (than anything else)” [al-Baqarah 2:165] 
    “Verily, those who live in awe for fear of their Lord” [al-Mu’minoon 23:57]
    And Allah mentions them together in the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): 
    “Verily, they used to hasten on to do good deeds, and they used to call on Us with hope and fear, and used to humble themselves before Us” [al-Anbiya’ 21:90]
    Once this is understood, we will realize that worship can only be accepted from a Muslim who believes in Allah alone (Tawheed), as Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
    “And We shall turn to whatever deeds they (disbelievers, polytheists, sinners) did, and We shall make such deeds as scattered floating particles of dust” [al-Furqaan 25:23]
    In Saheeh Muslim (214) it is narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: “I said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, during the Jaahiliyyah, Ibn Jud’aan used to uphold the ties of kinship and feed the poor. Will that avail him anything?’ He said, ‘It will not avail him anything because he never said, “O Allah, forgive me my sins on the Day of Judgement”’” – i.e., he did not believe in the resurrection or do good deeds hoping to meet Allah. 
    Moreover, the Muslim’s worship will not be accepted unless it meets two basic conditions: 
    1 – Sincerity of intention towards Allah, which means that the person’s intention in all his words and deeds, both outward and inward, is to seek the pleasure of Allah and none other. 
    2 – It should be in accordance with the sharee’ah which Allah has prescribed, and he should not worship Allah in any other way. That is achieved by following the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and what he brought, and shunning anything that goes against it, and not inventing any new form of worship that has not been narrated in sound reports from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). 
    The evidence for these two conditions is the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): 
    “So whoever hopes for the Meeting with his Lord, let him work righteousness and associate none as a partner in the worship of his Lord” [al-Kahf 18:110]
    Ibn Katheer (may Allah have mercy on him) said: “ ‘So whoever hopes for the Meeting with his Lord’ means his reward; ‘let him work righteousness’ means, that which is in accordance with the laws of Allah; ‘and associate none as a partner in the worship of his Lord’ this means seeking the Face of Allah alone, with no partner or associate. These two conditions are the basis of acceptable deeds, which must be sincerely for the sake of Allah alone and correct according to the sharee’ah of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

  • Q n A : The Muslim belief concerning the destiny of non-Muslim monotheists in the Hereafter


    Q
    The Muslim belief concerning the destiny of non-Muslim monotheists in the Hereafter


    A

    Praise be to Allah.
    Your interest in studying Islam is something great, which we appreciate. Everyone should seek
    the truth wherever it may be, and follow it even if it differs from the way of their forefathers or
    the religion of the country or society in which they live, because salvation from the Fire of Hell
    on the Day of Judgement is more important than anything else.
    One of the most important things that the would-be student of Islam should do is to consult
    authentic Islamic references, in order to understand the reality of this religion. For example, one
    should consult translations of the meanings of the Qur’an and the ahaadeeth (sayings) of the
    Prophet of Islam, Muhammad
    (peace be upon him), ensuring that the translations are
    sound. But reading books written by non-Muslims, or by Muslims who do not really
    understand or practice their religion, is not a scholarly approach or a sound method of finding
    out the truth.
    Returning to your question, what do Muslims believe will happen to atheists? Or for that
    matter, what about monotheists who are not Muslim? Will their fate be Hell in the Hereafter?
    The answer is that Allaah has clearly created everything, sent His blessings on His creation, and
    sent Messengers and Revealed Books to tell them that whoever believes in and worships Him
    alone, not associating any partner with Him, will enter Paradise, and whoever denies Him, or
    worships something else besides Him, or takes other gods instead of Him, or says that He has
    a wife or son, or that the angels are His daughters, or follows a law other than that which He
    revealed to judge between people in truth, or turns away from His religion, will be doomed in
    the Hereafter to the eternal punishment of Hell. This is exact justice, and this will be the fate
    deserved by the one who did not give his Creator His due.
    Worshipping Allaah, obeying His commands and adhering to His prohibitions are basic
    matters, but they form the essence of the relationship between the Creator and His creation.
    Allah says:
    “And I (Allaah) created not the jinns and men except they should worship Me (alone).”
    [al-Dhaariyaat 51:56]
    Messengers were sent with one message: to tell their people “Worship Allaah, for you have no
    god besides Him.”
    Hence we may understand just how far short the person falls who believes that Allaah is one
    and does not associate anything with Him, but does not worship or obey Him, but rebels
    against Him and fails to follow His religion or Law, or the Revelation and Messengers which He
    sent for him and people like him. Does such a person deserve to enter Paradise or Hell?
    This is the person who says: “I believe that there is One God Who created the universe, but I
    am going to stop there; I will not pray to Him or fast or perform Hajj or pay zakaat as He
    commanded. I am not going to carry out any duties towards Him; I will follow my own desires
    and do whatever I want, whether He permitted it or forbade it.” Can such a person attain
    salvation on the Day of Judgement?
    Allaah sent Messengers to every nation, that they might worship Him and shun false deities.
    The last nation is this ummah, and the last Messenger is Muhammad
    (peace be upon
    him). Allaah sent him for the whole of mankind, the entire world, and thus abrogated the
    previous laws and made this religion the best and most perfect and complete. Hence it is
    obligatory for everyone to enter this religion, for Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
    “And whoever seeks a religion other than Islaam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the
    Hereafter he will be one of the losers.” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:85]
    On this basis, the fate of one who says “I believe in the idea of One God, but I do not want to
    be a Muslim, or I do not want to follow the last Revelation or the last Prophet,” is clear.
    Furthermore, the fate of an atheist, who rejects even the belief in God, is even clearer and more
    evident.
    Finally, I hope that the matter is now clearer to you. I ask Allaah to guide us all to the truth and
    help us to follow it, for He is the best Supporter and Helper.