question #2 Sahih al-Bukhari 7161, Book 93, Hadith 25 : What guidance does Islam offer regarding the use of a spouse’s wealth for family needs without explicit permission?

Hind bint `Utba bin Rabi`a came and said. “O Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ)! By Allah, there was no family on the
surface of the earth, I like to see in degradation more than I did your family, but today there is no
family on the surface of the earth whom I like to see honored more than yours.” Hind added, “Abu
Sufyan is a miser. Is it sinful of me to feed our children from his property?” The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “There
is no blame on you if you feed them (thereof) in a just and reasonable manner.