question #2 Sahih Muslim 104b, Book 1, Hadith 194 : How does Islam view the act of shaving one’s hair or tearing clothes in times of sorrow?

Don’t you know? -and narrated to her: Verily the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: I have no concern with one who shaved her hair, lamented loudly and tore (her clothes in grief).