question #3 Sahih al-Bukhari 7180, Book 93, Hadith 43 : What are the ethical considerations in Islam when dealing with a miserly spouse?

Hind (bint `Utba) said to the Prophet (ﷺ) “Abu Sufyan is a miserly man and I need to take some money of
his wealth.” The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Take reasonably what is sufficient for you and your children ”