Sahih al-Bukhari
Ref: Book 67, Hadith 180
Ref: Book 67, Hadith 180
Bab 67
باب التَّرْغِيبُ فِي النِّكَاحِ
Chapter: Awakening the desire for marriage
حَدَّثَنِي يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، أَخْبَرَنَا سَيَّارٌ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي غَزْوَةٍ، فَلَمَّا قَفَلْنَا كُنَّا قَرِيبًا مِنَ الْمَدِينَةِ تَعَجَّلْتُ عَلَى بَعِيرٍ لِي قَطُوفٍ، فَلَحِقَنِي رَاكِبٌ مِنْ خَلْفِي فَنَخَسَ بَعِيرِي بِعَنَزَةٍ كَانَتْ مَعَهُ، فَسَارَ بَعِيرِي كَأَحْسَنِ مَا أَنْتَ رَاءٍ مِنَ الإِبِلِ، فَالْتَفَتُّ فَإِذَا أَنَا بِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي حَدِيثُ عَهْدٍ بِعُرْسٍ. قَالَ ” أَتَزَوَّجْتَ ”. قُلْتُ نَعَمْ. قَالَ ” أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ”. قَالَ قُلْتُ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا. قَالَ ” فَهَلاَّ بِكْرًا تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ ”. قَالَ فَلَمَّا قَدِمْنَا ذَهَبْنَا لِنَدْخُلَ، فَقَالَ ” أَمْهِلُوا حَتَّى تَدْخُلُوا لَيْلاً ـ أَىْ عِشَاءً ـ لِكَىْ تَمْتَشِطَ الشَّعِثَةُ، وَتَسْتَحِدَّ الْمُغِيبَةُ ”.
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: We were with the Prophet (ﷺ) in Ghazwa, and when we returned and approached Medina, I wanted to
hurry while riding a slow camel. A rider overtook me and pricked my camel with a spear which he
had, whereupon my camel started running as fast as any other fast camel you may see. I looked back,
and behold, the rider was Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) . I said, “O Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ)! I am newly married ” He asked,
“Have you got married?” I replied, “Yes.” He said, “A virgin or a matron?” I replied, “(Not a virgin)
but a matron” He said, “Why didn’t you marry a young girl so that you could play with her and she
with you?” When we reached (near Medina) and were going to enter it, the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Wait till
you enter your home early in the night so that the lady whose hair is unkempt may comb her hair and
that the lady whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hair.”
hurry while riding a slow camel. A rider overtook me and pricked my camel with a spear which he
had, whereupon my camel started running as fast as any other fast camel you may see. I looked back,
and behold, the rider was Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) . I said, “O Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ)! I am newly married ” He asked,
“Have you got married?” I replied, “Yes.” He said, “A virgin or a matron?” I replied, “(Not a virgin)
but a matron” He said, “Why didn’t you marry a young girl so that you could play with her and she
with you?” When we reached (near Medina) and were going to enter it, the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Wait till
you enter your home early in the night so that the lady whose hair is unkempt may comb her hair and
that the lady whose husband has been away may shave her pubic hair.”
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