Q n A : He got married to a girl but he does not feel any attraction towards her

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Q
He got married to a girl but he does not feel any attraction towards her


A

Praise be to Allah.in all
circumstances.
 My dear brother, what
you have described is indeed difficult and hard, but the Muslim can
do nothing but accept the decree of Allaah and face whatever difficulties
Allaah sends by following the means prescribed in sharee’ah.
 What we advise you to
do is the following: 
-Consult a trustworthy Muslim psychologist.
-Seek help through ruqyahs prescribed in sharee’ah [i.e., reciting
Qur’aan and du’aa’s for the purpose of seeking healing]. You can recite
ruqyah over yourself, or ask a righteous person to do this for you.

-If things do not change, we advise you to have patience, to fear
Allaah and do your duty towards Him, and to persist in making du’aa’;
Allaah will make a way out for you.
-If this goes on for a long time and causes difficulties for your
wife, there may be no option other than separation (divorce), and Allaah
will provide abundance for everyone of them from His bounty (cf. Al-Nisaa’
4:130)
-You have to have faith in Allaah and be optimistic. As time goes
by, things may change.
 We
ask Allaah to relieve your distress and to help you soon. And Allaah
is the source of strength.

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